Masturbating Tips for a Steamy Solo Session

            Did you know that masturbation is addictive? Once you’re in then chances are that you will never stop. Luckily, you will agree that it is one of the sweetest feelings on earth. I mean, how can you not enjoy having solo sex when you know all the right spots? Additionally, masturbation is the safest kind of sex a person can have; no sexually transmitted infections, almost zero chances of injury, and more. Most importantly, masturbation is sex with the person you love the most-you. However, not everyone has mastered the art and very few get the most out of it. We have a few tips that should enable you to have a steamy masturbation session.

 1. Schedule it Beforehand

      Random sex with someone else may be considered sweet but that does not always work with masturbation. This particular act has to be planned and prepared for. Allow your mind to process and fantasize about what is about to happen hours or days before it happens. That should help you develop suspense that will only make the occasion steamier. If you consider this particularly important for your soul, then mark it on your calendar.

 2. Lube is Key

           Masturbation without lube especially hurtful for men. You may not notice it amidst all the pleasure but you will feel the effects later. Keep in mind that the tissues that make up your genitals are quite soft and delicate. Any scratch or internal injury may complicate things for you. Most importantly, lubing increases pleasure through masturbation by a huge margin. That is because you can increase the pace and go deeper (for women), thus allowing for more satisfaction. However, you must be careful about the kind of lube you use because you may get a reaction from using on. Additionally, some water-based ones give more pleasure compared to regular oil-based ones.

 3. Know your Trigger

         Before you decide to masturbate, there is always something that triggers the thought. If you think watching an erotic movie or clip makes you want to do it, then let it be the last thing you do before masturbating. However, men and women are triggered by different things. For instance, some men are triggered by merely watching a woman’s butt bouncing. That means you’ll have to watch that butt somewhere, somehow. Watching them bounce in town doesn’t make you a pervert entirely. Additionally, good fantasies from movies, written content, and verbal cues can serve as good triggers.

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 4. Have a Sensual Moment with Yourself

           You don’t need someone else to make you feel sexually aroused. Always touch yourself erotically, spot by spot before you start masturbating. That will not only lubricate you but will also set the stage for a steamy masturbation session. You could start from your neck to the neck and your privates. By the time you get there, you will be prepared mentally and physically for the occasion.

 5. There is No Right Way to Masturbate

           Sex is unique to everyone and you can always use whichever way to satisfy yourself. Masturbation is the only kind of sex that doesn’t portray you as selfish by masturbating in a particular way. Most importantly, feel free to explore any part of your body that gives you pleasure.

 6. Take the Stress Away

          One thing about masturbation; if you lose focus for one second you’re starting all over again. So, why don’t you put your mind on it by des-stressing beforehand? There is nothing as disappointing as losing sit when you’re so close. One of the ways of keeping the stress at bay is performing a light exercise like jogging or taking a walk minutes before the act. Yoga is another great way of distressing and that should be accompanied by a bit of meditation, of course.

 7. Watch Yourself

          Watching yourself driving it home will make your experience even better and intense. Additionally, this will show how you react to certain aspects of sex and that would come in handy when you’re doing it with a partner. You may not be comfortable with it at first but you will get used to it as time goes. Furthermore, you can always start by watching your face only then proceed to watch your genitals. You won’t believe what a cute vagina or big penis you have when you watch it in the mirror.

 8. Straddle/Cuddle Pillow

         For women, you can always increase the intensity of masturbation by taking a pillow between your legs. It will also give you the feel of someone being between the legs. Alternatively, you can cuddle the pillow with one hand as you masturbate with the other. Rock your hips back and forth as you straddle the pillow, and take your vibrator or fingers deeper in the process.

 9. Invest in Equipment

        A good masturbation session is where you have everything at your disposal. If you feel like using a massive dildo, make sure it is right there, and that should apply to other things such as vibrators and plugs. Moreover, those items should be of various sizes and designs to give you many masturbating options.

 10. Focus On the Small Things

           In case you didn’t know, small forms of pleasure are the ones to take you to your climax. You don’t have to use specific forms of pleasure because they’re popular. Doing that will only put pressure on you and that would spoil the fun. Additionally, one doesn’t have to indulge to climax. Simply take your time in small things like taking a show, applying oils and performs on your body, or simply listening to soothing music. That should enough to prepare your mind and body for a satisfying masturbation experience.

In Conclusion

           Masturbation is all in the mind, and as mentioned, it doesn’t have a specific formula. All you need is the focus, and that should be on the one thing that triggers you the most. Most importantly, there is always more when it is delayed a little. Always try to hold it when you’re about to climax. Let the pleasure build and when it finally happens, it will be worth it. But make sure it won’t come with a cardiac arrest, because I promise you, it will be super intense!

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