Anal sex is quite arousing- not just for the very first time, but for all time pleasure. The first time is certainly a memorable experience for both the partners due to the fact that it’s new. The anus is full of tight sensitive nerve endings that feel amazing when stimulated by a tongue, finger, penis, or toy, therefore before engaging in anal sex, you should be completely prepared – mentally, emotionally and physically. Foreplay before anal sex is not only fun, but absolutely necessary, choose the right Anal Sex Positions for you to play with your anus to create awareness for the anal muscles.
We are aware of the fact that the vagina provides natural lubrication when aroused but the anus reacts differently, that’s why lube is key when this kind of play is involved. It’s advisable to insert quality anal lubricants for seamless penetration. Note that Saliva doesn’t always provide enough moisture, and when it does, it can dry up fast. A water-based lubricant is recommended because it stays longer, apply generously. Also you can have your partner massage the rim of your anus. Also, don’t forget your anal toys, they go a long way in getting you prepared for the fantasy. Always insert your preferred well lubricated anal toy to prepare your anus for the action.
Using the right sex positions can also help to make the experience a good one. Anal sex doesn’t have to be performed in one position. It is crucial that you find the position that is most comfortable for you to receive your partner. As the saying goes, “securing a prime real estate is all about location”. The same principle applies to anal sex -It’s all about position. Here are the list of 3 best positions suitable for deriving pleasurable and alluring anal pleasure:
This is one of the most highly-enjoyed positions by women because it lets you control the speed and depth of thrusting. In the cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you (female) mount on top. As the partner on top, you can ease into anal penetration by moving up or down as needed. Straddling your partner during anal sex should not be a problem, particularly if you are fairly tall in comparison to your partner.
You will place your legs on the mattress on either side of them, and set the speed yourself. If you’d like it to be a bit more intimate, let your partner sit up against the headboard so you look into each other’s eyes. This position will allow you to control the pace and depth that his penis goes inside of you. Remember to go at an easy pace and stay relaxed. It helps to have strong orgasm and be highly aroused.”
When it comes to anal sex, missionary will never steer you wrong. In the missionary position, you lift your two legs up (either place your legs on his chest or shoulders) thereby opening your anus directly for his thrust. With the right amount of lube and relaxation, even initial penetration should be pleasurable.
Missionary is effortless for her pleasure, it’s all about the mood you and your partner are in. With a slow rhythm and gentle massaging of each other’s bodies with a warm, fragrant oil this position is intimate and sensual. With restraints and little dirty talk, your old favorite becomes your kinky new one.
No list of anal sex positions would be complete without this particular style. In fact, it’s the position most of us first attempt anal sex with. This position is most often associated with anal sex because it has major advantages. As the partner at the back, you can stay loose as you control penetration to increase pleasure.
This rear-entry position puts you both in a pose that is primal and energetic, which is fantastic for those very comfortable with anal sex. However, even the most experienced have encountered discomfort when the thrusting partner has become too excited and entered too deep, too quickly -this is where communication is important. Always notify your partner when he is thrusting too deep to prevent any form of pain or injury.